Made some small fixes for MinGW and for C++20 with GCC
Our use of constinit does not seem to work with GCC yet (see
https://github.com/protocolbuffers/protobuf/issues/8310), so this
commit disables it on GCC for now.
This commit also updates mutex.h to work around the fact that MinGW's
std::mutex apparently does not have a constexpr constructor. We already
have this kind of workaround for MSVC, so we can just use the same
workaround.